My Wedding Vows

Written by Kerry Messer

Learn to love, honour and cherish yourself. Say these to yourself daily.

I vow to hold myself in only the highest regard, to not put myself down or in anyway demean myself.

I vow to take responsibility for all my actions, but not to take on the responsibility for others' actions.

I vow to follow my heart and spirit wherever they might take me.

I vow to listen to my heart with stethoscope-like precision and trust my instincts under all circumstances.

I vow to surrender my need for control and to exert my will (no matter how well intentioned) and to let God's will drive my car through this life like she has in all my past lives.

I vow to be gentle and understanding of myself when I make mistakes.

I vow to forgive myself with grace and ease … to forgive all who have hurt or betrayed me or made mistakes that have affected me.

I vow to wake up every morning walking into the day remembering there is only now.

I vow to remember that I can't change the past or predetermine the future, but I can make the best choices for my higher good in the many moments of today.

I vow to take care of my body and health as if I was carrying myself as a fetus.

I vow to put no other before myself and my highest good.

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